Question: Okaaaay my friends think im a slut.... wut should i do??
So sumtimes in the summer i wear tanktops and all but nothing ravealing and my friends r like really religious so they'e all like y u showing so much skin, even though im reallt not. my mom never said anything and thats the way i always wore my clothes since i was little... whos rite???
to each his own...
don't care what they say, it's not really matter of whose wrong or right. Just wear whatever you want, and don't care about what they say.
Its just a matter of personal preference. If you and your mom agree on this, it shouldn't be anyone else's business.
find different friends or cover up
ur where watever u want and doeznt evry one where tht next time they say that say no well at leats i dont have 2 wear pants in the boiling heat ur just jelous
Forget them
its prob just because they are so religous they think that! but i wouldnt worry about it be comfortable!!!
There is no right or wrong here. Wear what you like to wear, as long as it is not showing off everything!! If your friends are too uptight to accept what you wear, then find new friends.
they're just really religious! some people get that way...
they're just trying to "save your soul". just tell them it's not your thing and keep wearing what makes you feel good!
well everyone is entiltled to their own opinion. no one is right and no one is wrong. if you dont think you are revealing too much then dont worry about it.
they are jus jealous of ur bod so ignore and b proud of what you wear and of course if ur mom doesn't say anything then there is nothin wrong cuz ur mom doesn't want you t obe a slutt and wont let u be!
i think theyre jealous that they arent allowed to wear the same clothes.....
people who are actually religious dont look down on other people. find yourself some friends that support you and that arent hypocrites.
real friends wouldnt call u sluts....tank tops arent considered slutty...
Perhaps your clothes are too tight? Even if you're not showing skin...if you're wearing something to show every curve of your body people can take this the wrong way.
I come from a religious family and experienced the same thing, but opposite. There were girls in my hall that didn't always wear low cut tops but skin tight, form fitting clothes and they were always scolded for doing so.
If your mom sees nothing wrong with it then it's either your friends that are trying to find some fault with you even if you have none or your mom doesn't see anything with dressing provocative.
maybe you should cover a little bit of your skin when they are around so that you wont hear anything from them.
They're obviously not true friends if they think your're a slut because of the clothes you wear. Tank tops are completely normal and not 'sluttish' at all. Don't stop wearing them just because your 'friends' think you're showing too much. Keep clothes, and find new friends who like you for who you are.
You're right, they're wrong. If they actually think of you that way, they aren't such great friends, now are they? Find some less sanctimonious people to hang out with. You'll have more fun that way.
Big difference between wearing tank tops and being a slut.Are you comfortable with yourself? That's what really matters!
if they are really your good friends they shouldnt care what you wear.or maybe when ever you are around them try not to wear the clothes they think are slutty and when they arent around wear what ever!
Well always remember guys have sick minds, the more they see, the easier it is for them to think about you in bad ways. Your mom probobly felt uncomfortable telling you that. It's not inappropraite to dress like that, but it really depends on how you want guys to think of you.
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to each his own...
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don't care what they say, it's not really matter of whose wrong or right. Just wear whatever you want, and don't care about what they say.
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Its just a matter of personal preference. If you and your mom agree on this, it shouldn't be anyone else's business.
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find different friends or cover up
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ur where watever u want and doeznt evry one where tht next time they say that say no well at leats i dont have 2 wear pants in the boiling heat ur just jelous
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Forget them
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its prob just because they are so religous they think that! but i wouldnt worry about it be comfortable!!!
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There is no right or wrong here. Wear what you like to wear, as long as it is not showing off everything!! If your friends are too uptight to accept what you wear, then find new friends.
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they're just really religious! some people get that way...
they're just trying to "save your soul". just tell them it's not your thing and keep wearing what makes you feel good!
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well everyone is entiltled to their own opinion. no one is right and no one is wrong. if you dont think you are revealing too much then dont worry about it.
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they are jus jealous of ur bod so ignore and b proud of what you wear and of course if ur mom doesn't say anything then there is nothin wrong cuz ur mom doesn't want you t obe a slutt and wont let u be!
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i think theyre jealous that they arent allowed to wear the same clothes.....
people who are actually religious dont look down on other people. find yourself some friends that support you and that arent hypocrites.
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real friends wouldnt call u sluts....tank tops arent considered slutty...
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Perhaps your clothes are too tight? Even if you're not showing skin...if you're wearing something to show every curve of your body people can take this the wrong way.
I come from a religious family and experienced the same thing, but opposite. There were girls in my hall that didn't always wear low cut tops but skin tight, form fitting clothes and they were always scolded for doing so.
If your mom sees nothing wrong with it then it's either your friends that are trying to find some fault with you even if you have none or your mom doesn't see anything with dressing provocative.
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maybe you should cover a little bit of your skin when they are around so that you wont hear anything from them.
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They're obviously not true friends if they think your're a slut because of the clothes you wear. Tank tops are completely normal and not 'sluttish' at all. Don't stop wearing them just because your 'friends' think you're showing too much. Keep clothes, and find new friends who like you for who you are.
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You're right, they're wrong. If they actually think of you that way, they aren't such great friends, now are they? Find some less sanctimonious people to hang out with. You'll have more fun that way.
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Big difference between wearing tank tops and being a slut.Are you comfortable with yourself? That's what really matters!
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if they are really your good friends they shouldnt care what you wear.or maybe when ever you are around them try not to wear the clothes they think are slutty and when they arent around wear what ever!
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Well always remember guys have sick minds, the more they see, the easier it is for them to think about you in bad ways. Your mom probobly felt uncomfortable telling you that. It's not inappropraite to dress like that, but it really depends on how you want guys to think of you.